I’ve been promising Kevin that he wouldn’t have to weedeat around my flowers that I planted in the front of the house and after three years, I finally made that promise come true! I’m not done, but I got one section finished, yay!
I updated our chalkboard with a little eggy festiveness this morning! I think these little eggs are so cute.
I think I’ve mentioned before that since we have been decluttering I have been drawn to having more color in my decor and life. It has been so great! One of the people I follow on Instagram, The Nester, has a bookshelf with her books sorted by color and I fell in love with it!
I’ve been trying to find ways that I can do something similar in my house. It has been a little difficult to do a whole bookshelf like I wanted because most of my books are various shades of blue or white. So I just put my project on hold for a little bit and regrouped. Then I realized that I didn’t have to do a whole bookshelf, duh! I was able to use my cookbooks, a couple of regular books, and some devotionals that I have. And I love how it turned out!
I also sorted the kids’ DVDs by color and put the mostly white ones on either side to be kind of like “clouds.” I really like how it looks and that it’s kind of a subtle organized look.
First off, I love being outside. Maybe not all the time, but since I spend the majority of my time inside with the three littles, I especially love my time I get to spend outside now. I’m ready now to get the yard in order, specifically the front of the house. Also, my potting bench that my dad built me is super cluttered and I need to clean that up.
My biggest focus right now is the front bed and the flower bed I’m attempting to build. I want to get some pine straw to neaten everything up and also to use a deterrent for weeds to keep growing. I have huge elephant ears in the bed, Kevin loves them! And at one point I planted garlic and it keeps coming back. This past week I noticed some garlic stalks coming up again!
I’m just going to let both of the plants grow and see what happens. I’m hoping that they can both grow there this year and when the elephant ears die out when it gets colder again, then I can harvest the garlic. I just have to keep Kevin from weed eating it all down. If I keep the bed weeded, then he won’t have to weed eat it. We’ll see how all that goes.
I’ve always dreamed of having beautiful flower beds blooming and I’ve slowly been collecting bulbs from friends who have divided their flowers in the spring time. I like doing it this way because I have an extremely hard time making decisions on what to get and I don’t really know what I’m doing. So when somebody gives some bulbs away then that is one less decision for me to make.
The past several years I’ve always focused on gardens and doing big things. Those were my dreams, though! Since we’ve been decluttering and cleaning up, that has slowly moved to us doing things outside as well. The more we do, the more it clears up for me to focus on the basic things that need tending to.
I’m still going to plant and grow a couple of herbs and vegetables this year. I love growing my own food even if I don’t always eat it. I’ll probably just grow them in pots on the porch, Kevin hates having to mow and weed eat around all my projects. So this year I’m trying to make it where he doesn’t have as much to do in the yard.
I’m looking at it like you have to start somewhere and where I already started needs a little attention. So now it’s time for a restart and spring is a great time to give everything a little TLC.
My body is tired. I’ve had three pregnancies in three years and I can feel it. I’m realizing that I need to do something more or I’m just gonna hurt more and more. Not to mention I want to feel more comfortable in the clothes I like to wear and want to wear. And I want to run and play with the children.
I feel like I’ve just kind of let the past 6 or 7 years just happen to me and just kind of floated along doing whatever I felt like. So now that my body has changed from mostly having babies and also years of inactivity, I want to change.
I don’t know what I’m going to do yet. I want to do something that involves a good deal of stretching because my body is just so tight right now. When I’m holding Jake while he’s eating, I’ll flex my foot and I can feel how tight my legs are. I want to get back to feeling loose and limber and not hurting.
I also like to wear shorts and tank tops and I really miss my muscles that I used to have that made me not as self conscious when wearing them. With spring and summer coming I want to get more fit than I am right now!
I believe that the kids are going to have a lot of fun getting moving and exercising around the house. They love to constantly be moving and playing. So to have their mama playing around with them will be a blast! Now I just have to start.
Having a system for sorting through clothes that the kids have outgrown and having a plan for what to do with them was not something I thought about until Finley was at least a year old. Even then my only solution was to toss anything that he wasn’t wearing anymore into a diaper box and to store it in his closet. Since then I have sorted through those boxes once. And I put size labels on the boxes so I could keep them somewhat organized.
With Eleanor’s clothes, they were mostly sorted by size, by the time I figured out I needed to store the clothes, I realized to go ahead and sort them from the beginning and I would never have to go through them again. Game. Changer. I donated 5 boxes of Eleanor’s clothes this past month and it felt so good to pass them on! And get them out of the closet and house. There are two boxes of her clothes left that didn’t get donated with the rest. I made the mistake and got caught up in looking through the clothes and got sentimental about them. I didn’t have time to go through them like I needed to that day so I closed those boxes up and put them back in the closet. I will definitely look through them later and hopefully I won’t be feeling as sentimental then as I did that day.
I haven’t given anything of Finley’s away, mainly because we have Jake now! I have to sort through the boy clothes I have. And reorganize because apparently I did not do a good job sorting the clothes the first time. Some of the boxes are going to a friend who has a little boy several months younger than Fin. I love the idea of giving to others but I always talk myself out of it by either convincing myself that they don’t need it or that they wouldn’t like anything I have to offer. I was not prepared for the insecurities that accompany motherhood and it has been hard dealing with all these feelings.
Jake has grown out of his newborn clothes and it’s time for me to pack them up. And I am so much more prepared this time around. Third time’s a charm! I have another friend who is going to have a boy this summer that I’m planning on giving these clothes to.
When talking about giving away all the boy clothes, people often question why I’m not saving them all for Jacob. It may seem wasteful to give them away when I know I’m going to have to buy more. But the main reason is we really don’t have a lot of room to continue to store everything we think we might need in the future. Also, many of those clothes are hand me downs from a friend that we desperately needed during a hard year for Kevin and me. So I would like to pass those on the same way but also half of the clothes aren’t really a style I would pick out myself. So it’s very possible they would just sit in a box while I get clothes that are more my style to put on Jake.
Keeping in mind that my goal is to keep as little clothes as I need should help keep me motivated to stay on top of the clothes situation. And as time passes I’m sure I’ll get better at my methods for sorting and organizing baby clothes whether I donate, give to a friend, or even put them in a weekend consignment sale.
Oh I totally forgot to post these yesterday! I’m still keeping my goals simple, infant and all, pretty much planning for something I’ve had in mind for a month or two by this point. I love a new month because I feel inspired to get up and make changes that I’ve been putting off or do a project I’ve been thinking of.
- Declutter and restyle bookshelf. I’ve been staring at this bookshelf in the corner of our living room for two months now and all I can say about it is that it needs work. I haven’t been able to bring myself to get everything off of it and figure out how I want to do it but this month I’m going to do just that!
- Start a stretching/get moving routine. Pregnancy is hard on the body. Caring for three small children is physically demanding and my body is tired. I need to fix this somehow.
- Fix up yard. Spring is coming!!! I cannot wait!! Every year I try to do too much with the yard. This year I’m doing a basic fix up and not much more. I’m not going to be able to stay away from growing my herbs and tomatoes.
- Cook more vegetables. I’m in a rut again with figuring out meals and I know we need more vegetables. Now that I think about it, I felt this way around this time last year and I started a whole30 as a way to challenge myself to get more creative with meals. I feel stuck right now with the kids, Ellie eats anything and everything on her tray except chicken, Finley only wants meatballs and bacon. Kevin eats pizza and spaghetti. And I want chicken based meals so I’m trying to figure out a compromise. Mainly for myself because I’m the most reasonable of the four of us.
I think I can get those done. And I’m excited about all of it. Here’s to spring coming!
Our first month with three babies has passed! I’ve had a good month with my babies and I’ve enjoyed snuggling with my precious newborn baby Jake! Since I basically took the month off from doing anything, I feel like I kind of got more done and I’m ready for this next month! I still want to ease into the month but I can’t stay cooped up and alone in my house with the kids for much longer. Life just won’t let me. Also a husband who likes to go and do stuff won’t let me either. But I’m happy as long as I’m with him!
We actually got a good bit done around the house this last month, bathroom renovation started(!!!!), I can’t wait to keep up our momentum.
- Focus on play-based learning. I’ve started following some Instagram accounts that have all kinds of activities for playing with the kids. I haven’t done any of them yet, but the more I get the kids to play with their blocks and color and play with puzzles and magnatiles, the more ready I get to transition to doing the more hands on activities. Confession: I really just want to sit in the couch and cuddle Jacob while I play on my phone.
- Spend more time reading my bible with the devotionals I got for Christmas. I got a couple of devotions and memoir type books and I started out reading them pretty good but then I slacked off and eventually stopped. I think it is hard for me because I didn’t have a consistent study time before kids and now mornings are difficult because they are so full. It’s ingrained in me to do “word before world” but in my head since I can’t sit down with my bible and study books and spend 30 minutes before taking care of kids I feel like it is useless to do it. I’m planning to do it differently in February. #juststart
- Declutter bookshelf and paperwork. So the bookshelf won’t take much time to do. Basically my plan is to take everything off the shelves and restyle them. I’ve been eyeing the dang thing for a few weeks now and I just haven’t put forth the effort to do it. The paperwork is a different story. At the beginning of this year there was five different spots that had random paper clutter everywhere. Before Finley’s birthday party, I cleared out two spots. A large dresser drawer in our bedroom (what? why even??) and then also the pile of paperwork that is almost always on the counter and the slots above our key rack. Clearing up these spots made a huuuge difference, the countertop looks a hundred times better and I also had another drawer to store my leggings and yoga pants in. So now it’s time to get to another part of the clutter: the china hutch and small filing cabinet.
I have a couple of other things in mind, but I am not sure I will get to them so I’ll just let those be a surprise if I get to them!
There’s a few things I want to do this morning that I just can’t stop thinking about. The biggest thing on my mind right now is my drawers of paperwork. Ughhh. And this would be a good morning to go through it all, my mom has the kids. So really, that’s probable why I really want to do it. But I have something else that I need to do first and I really do want to do it! It’s just going to require a little bit of project prep up front that isn’t quickly done so I’ve been putting it off.
I’ve been asked to make a baby blanket out of minky fabric. I am super excited because I want to make more things and everything I keep looking at and dreaming of doing tend to be on the more difficult side. I am a big dreamer after all. But this minky blanket is the perfect simple project to get back into sewing which is really something I want to do.
I think because it is so simple and will not take me very long to do, it is easy for me to procrastinate getting started. Procrastinating is something that I am a professional at doing. However, ever since having kids, I’ve been working at being better at not procrastinating. I’ve been changing my ways y’all. it hasn’t been easy and it has taken hard work, but with every thing that I do right away, I am one step closer to being a doer. I have noticed that if something won’t take a lot of time then I have the tendency to put it off.
The problem with this habit is that it often results in generally adding to the daily clutter that I’ve been battling. I’ve realized something else about myself, too. The easier it is to do something, the more likely I am to go ahead and do it. My goal for my house right now is to streamline all of my daily tasks and make everything easier to do because then I will actually do it.
This is why I try to run my dishwasher every night. Doing this results in a small load which literally take me maybe 3 minutes to unload and put away. And then this task is done and the dishwasher is ready for the dishes from the next day.
This is why I try to do all my laundry in one day. I wash and dry all of the laundry in the house usually on Monday. It doesn’t always get put up in the same day, but it is done. I know a lot of people do one small load a day, but that just doesn’t work for my brain and I just put it off until I have a huge pile of dirty clothes and we are almost out of clean clothes. I’ve learned from that my brain works better for laundry when I treat it as a project.
It’s weird, I know, because that’s the opposite of how I treat doing the dishes. But I use the same dishes pretty much every day and if they don’t get washed in the dishwasher then I’ll have to handwash and that’s just not something I can do right now. I have enough clothes to last me a week and I’ve also realized more of what I don’t wear and what I do love to wear.
Something else that helps me is keeping my kitchen table and countertops cleared off. It helps me think clearer and also makes it easier for me to do small projects. Which is why I am feeling the pull to decluttering paperwork this morning instead of sewing a super simple blanket. To do that I am going to have to get my sewing machine out, find the thread, find my rotary cutter, etc.
Oh well, I’ve rambled enough about this for this morning. Time to get started and get done! I’ll time myself to see how long it will take me to do it from beginning o end.
Right now I am still sitting in my bed at 9:00 am all thanks to my mom who kept my two big babies last night. Since I have now been over 12 hours home alone, I can kind of think straight again and I am all sorts of inspired to get stuff done. Of course as soon as I get up I’m sure my littlest will decide he’s hungry and I’ll have to take care of him! But that’s ok, motherhood is the best job ever and I love that I get to do it.
I’ve been sitting here in bed, cuddling my little Jakey and drinking coffee, and reading a new-to-me blog I discovered. It is a minimalism blog Be More With Less and now I’m all sorts of inspired to do some more minimizing. I should note that this happens often when my mom keeps the kids because then I can take a look around with clear, well rested eyes and see what in my house is too much for me.
I’m going to start with the room that Finley and Eleanor share because they have already thrown all their toys out of the toy bins and this makes it easy to sort through what they play with and what they don’t. Something I love about the kids is that they really love to play with the simplest of toys. We have donated so so many toys and I think we could donate half of what is left still. I’m trying to view their toys with practicality of what they actually play with instead of my idealism of what I wished they played with. Decluttering and minimizing is good to do, but if I try to stick to unrealistic expectations then it doesn’t really do much good.
As a dreamer and idealist this can be hard for me because I can see the potential in a piece of furniture on the side of the road or I will buy craft supplies for a project that I wish I did but in reality I’m not ever going to be a scrapbooker no matter how much I like the way they look or wish I did it. If I’m not going to use the supplies or redo the dresser, I shouldn’t bring it into my house. I’ve been working on changing that mindset in 2018 and the last six months I’ve been putting it into practice. 2019 started out with us taking a load of stuff to the local thrift store and in a week or two I plan to have another load ready to go.
I’m feeling all sorts of inspired to clean up this morning but right now for the time being I’m gonna sit here and cuddle my sleeping babe and drink my second cup of coffee.