Category: Decluttering

Trying to Beat my Procrastination Habit

There’s a few things I want to do this morning that I just can’t stop thinking about. The biggest thing on my mind right now is my drawers of paperwork. Ughhh. And this would be a good morning to go through it all, my mom has the kids. So really, that’s probable why I really want to do it. But I have something else that I need to do first and I really do want to do it! It’s just going to require a little bit of project prep up front that isn’t quickly done so I’ve been putting it off.

I’ve been asked to make a baby blanket out of minky fabric. I am super excited because I want to make more things and everything I keep looking at and dreaming of doing tend to be on the more difficult side. I am a big dreamer after all. But this minky blanket is the perfect simple project to get back into sewing which is really something I want to do.

I think because it is so simple and will not take me very long to do, it is easy for me to procrastinate getting started. Procrastinating is something that I am a professional at doing. However, ever since having kids, I’ve been working at being better at not procrastinating. I’ve been changing my ways y’all. it hasn’t been easy and it has taken hard work, but with every thing that I do right away, I am one step closer to being a doer. I have noticed that if something won’t take a lot of time then I have the tendency to put it off.

The problem with this habit is that it often results in generally adding to the daily clutter that I’ve been battling. I’ve realized something else about myself, too. The easier it is to do something, the more likely I am to go ahead and do it. My goal for my house right now is to streamline all of my daily tasks and make everything easier to do because then I will actually do it.

This is why I try to run my dishwasher every night. Doing this results in a small load which literally take me maybe 3 minutes to unload and put away. And then this task is done and the dishwasher is ready for the dishes from the next day.

This is why I try to do all my laundry in one day. I wash and dry all of the laundry in the house usually on Monday. It doesn’t always get put up in the same day, but it is done. I know a lot of people do one small load a day, but that just doesn’t work for my brain and I just put it off until I have a huge pile of dirty clothes and we are almost out of clean clothes. I’ve learned from that my brain works better for laundry when I treat it as a project.

It’s weird, I know, because that’s the opposite of how I treat doing the dishes. But I use the same dishes pretty much every day and if they don’t get washed in the dishwasher then I’ll have to handwash and that’s just not something I can do right now. I have enough clothes to last me a week and I’ve also realized more of what I don’t wear and what I do love to wear.

Something else that helps me is keeping my kitchen table and countertops cleared off. It helps me think clearer and also makes it easier for me to do small projects. Which is why I am feeling the pull to decluttering paperwork this morning instead of sewing a super simple blanket. To do that I am going to have to get my sewing machine out, find the thread, find my rotary cutter, etc.

Oh well, I’ve rambled enough about this for this morning. Time to get started and get done! I’ll time myself to see how long it will take me to do it from beginning o end.

Decluttering

Ok. I have started to write a post detailing our decluttering journey at least 4 or 5 times but I just cannot find any of them. I hand write all my blog posts first, mostly on loose leaf sheets of paper. Writing things down help me keep my thoughts together and somewhat organized. And currently I have like 4 other posts about decluttering that I’m hesitating to post until I can get an intro post of how we got started published. It sounds crazy, I know.

Decluttering and minimalism have become important actions to Kevin and me in the last half of 2018 and so far we have successfully carried these ideals into 2019. We really kicked off this journey (is there anything less cliche that I can call it?) last August. I had just gotten home from Dallas and was totally inspired by my aunt’s beautiful house. The day before Kevin came home from work, I had the morning all to myself because the kids were with my mom and I was looking around my house and at alllll the stuff we had and how I wanted to just toss it all.

So I thought, why don’t I do that? Why don’t I just get rid of that whole bookcase right there that I don’t even want? I spent most of the morning clearing that piece of furniture off and I even took the bookcase out of the house as soon as I had everything taken off. After that morning I haven’t slowed down getting stuff out of my house and I haven’t looked back since.

When Kevin came home, he didn’t even notice that the bookcase was gone at first. But he did notice that there was something different and lighter about our living room. I eventually pointed it out to him because I couldn’t stand it anymore.

Another catalyst we experienced was watching the documentary, Minimalism, by the Minimalists. I have kind of been on this minimalism journey and reading about it for almost 3 years now but it wasn’t until August that I made a drastic change. When we watched the minimalism documentary I was so thrilled that Kevin was finally interested in it, too! It helps when he is wanting to do the same thing as I am because he is such a get stuff done guy and then that makes me get stuff done, too.

So we started hardcore going through our stuff and we have come a long way and still have a long way to go. As of right now I know of 3 different drawers that have paperwork and mail that is just waiting for me to sort through them. I feel like I was kind of waiting for Jake to get here before I got started on all that sorting, and now that I am sitting here, I can just hear it calling my name.

So there we go! The beginning of our minimalism journey is now written and published. Now I can publish the other posts I have written. Some of them are from before Christmas but they have important thoughts that I want to be recorded so I’m going to be publishing them anyway. I don’t know why but I felt like I couldn’t talk about decluttering until I had done this intro of sorts. And decluttering and minimizing is such a big part of our life now. We are constantly throwing things away or putting in a donate box, and I need to be able to write about the process because I have lots of thoughts and feelings about it all.

Friday Ramblings

Right now I am still sitting in my bed at 9:00 am all thanks to my mom who kept my two big babies last night. Since I have now been over 12 hours home alone, I can kind of think straight again and I am all sorts of inspired to get stuff done. Of course as soon as I get up I’m sure my littlest will decide he’s hungry and I’ll have to take care of him! But that’s ok, motherhood is the best job ever and I love that I get to do it.

I’ve been sitting here in bed, cuddling my little Jakey and drinking coffee, and reading a new-to-me blog I discovered. It is a minimalism blog Be More With Less and now I’m all sorts of inspired to do some more minimizing. I should note that this happens often when my mom keeps the kids because then I can take a look around with clear, well rested eyes and see what in my house is too much for me.

I’m going to start with the room that Finley and Eleanor share because they have already thrown all their toys out of the toy bins and this makes it easy to sort through what they play with and what they don’t. Something I love about the kids is that they really love to play with the simplest of toys. We have donated so so many toys and I think we could donate half of what is left still. I’m trying to view their toys with practicality of what they actually play with instead of my idealism of what I wished they played with. Decluttering and minimizing is good to do, but if I try to stick to unrealistic expectations then it doesn’t really do much good.

As a dreamer and idealist this can be hard for me because I can see the potential in a piece of furniture on the side of the road or I will buy craft supplies for a project that I wish I did but in reality I’m not ever going to be a scrapbooker no matter how much I like the way they look or wish I did it. If I’m not going to use the supplies or redo the dresser, I shouldn’t bring it into my house. I’ve been working on changing that mindset in 2018 and the last six months I’ve been putting it into practice. 2019 started out with us taking a load of stuff to the local thrift store and in a week or two I plan to have another load ready to go.

I’m feeling all sorts of inspired to clean up this morning but right now for the time being I’m gonna sit here and cuddle my sleeping babe and drink my second cup of coffee.